Think about college for a moment: a four year sleepaway camp with thousands of your peers, no parents, and unlimited pizza. OK, that last part was a bit of a stretch, but you get the idea. It seems unfitting that the purpose of college isn’t to socialize, but to learn. Yes, I know, it’s a bit of a paradox, but college is an institution of learning first and a funhouse second. As with all choices between extremes, the middle road is best. Balance. Yin and yang. You’ve heard it all before. To get the most out of your college experience, you must find a way to balance school and social work–no easy task.
Before you attempt such a feat, identify your goals. Every student’s priorities are different, and they will largely depend on the student’s individual ambition, personality, and particular school. If you are set on triple majoring in Engineering, Computer Science, and Ancient Greek, chances are you will not have much time for a social life–but that’s your choice to make. Similarly, your college may be a notorious party school on the one hand, or rigorously studious on the other. The social and academic atmosphere of your school will undoubtedly influence your behavior.
Most of you will lie somewhere in between these extremes, and, a result, you might seek some guidance on how to balance the two. For some, the challenge is resisting peer pressure to go out when you have an essay due the next morning. For others, the challenge is better scheduling your school work so you actually have time to hang out with friends. No matter what your priorities are, here are a few tips to make your college experience a well-rounded one.
- Choose Study Locations Carefully: Most of us know how and where we can study well. Some of us can block out the noise and activity of a dorm hall. Others thrive amidst the quiet buzz of intellectual activity in the library. And, in some extreme cases, one needs absolute silence and no distractions. Luckily, you will seldom have trouble finding the right location for you. The biggest challenge for most is getting out of that noisy dorm room and into a dorm study room or the library. Yes, it’s nice to be in the company of others, especially when you have to do something you really don’t want to do. For most of us, though, if you try to study and socialize at the same time, guess what–you’re not studying.
- Know the Law of Diminishing Returns: You know how the last agonizing bites of a 20 oz. steak dinner are not nearly as good as the first few? That’s the law of diminishing returns. If you continue an activity after a certain peak of performance, your effectiveness will decrease. The same goes for studying. Have you ever studied for hours on end? Did you notice that you started reading more slowly, and the words started to blur on the page? Chances are, if you reach this point, you’re not studying very effectively. Study breaks are our friends. They will not only make your studying more effective, but you can use the breaks to socialize. See? Balance.
- Choose Your Dorm Hall Carefully: Many dorm communities offer themed dorm halls, from academic, to international, to general. You can count on academic halls being a bit more peaceful–or “boring,” depending on your point of view. General halls, or those without a theme, tend to be a bit livelier (see “rambunctious”). Again, the choice in dorm hall comes down to personal preference. If you wish to make your dorm the ideal sanctuary for studying bliss, the academic hall might be a good choice. On the other hand, if you already plan to seek your study location elsewhere, you may not be so limited in your choice of hall theme.
- Get Involved: On the other side of the spectrum, your academics may be fine, but you may be seeking social stimulation. This kind of situation often arises after you move out of the dorm; no longer bombarded by attention-hungry peers, you may seek an outlet for social interaction outside of your living space. Check out the clubs and organizations to meet many students with similar interests. Clubs are not only fun, fulfilling, and filled with friends, but they make great additions to your resume.









