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Applying to College: Part Two – Managing the Process

So you’ve got your list of “safety,” “match” and “reach” schools and you’ve done your homework on each program and campus, now what? To effectively handle the entire process of filling out applications, there are a few things you’ll need to keep in mind.

Get organized!    12

It may sound obvious, but even the most organized student can get overwhelmed by the amount of papers flying about so you’ll have to work extra hard to stay on top of all of the deadlines. I recommend going to Office Max or Staples and purchasing a dry-erase school-year calendar. Put it on your bedroom wall and immediately fill in all of the application due dates. Let’s say you are applying to 8 schools. Don’t expect to fill out each application a week before they’re due. Give yourself at least a week to complete each one. That means for 8 apps, you should be getting starting with the applications a minimum of two months before the due dates. This will give you plenty of time to get your supplemental information (transcripts, letters of recommendation, resumes, etc.) in order. You don’t want to rush yourself.

For the physical applications, create a file folder labeled with each school’s name and keep them together in a file box. Many students also make a checklist for each of the application’s components and attach them to the front of each application with a paperclip. As you add a transcript or a personal essay to each application, check it off and note what else needs to be completed.

Give yourself a person due date for each application. Aim to have each fully completed one-two weeks before the actual due date. This is will give you plenty of time to re-read each piece of information for errors before you submit the final application. Photocopy the entire application before you mail it and when you go to the post office, make sure to send it by certified mail so you can get confirmation that it was delivered.

I applied to 13 schools as an undergrad and somehow managed to keep all of the applications organized – if I can do it, so can you!

Getting Letters of Rec

Many students feel shy or embarrassed about asking for letters of recommendation but it’s important to remember that your teachers are there to help and support your dreams. If anything, they should feel flattered that you’re asking!

Check to see what the requirements are for the letters of rec. Usually teachers are preferred but sometimes counselors, community leaders or family friends are acceptable. Obviously you want to choose the people who know you best, but there are ways you can help your recommender write the best possible letter.

When asking, check to see what information your teacher would like to aid them in writing. If you can, provide them with copies of your resume, personal statement and transcript. Explain to them why you are applying to each specific school and how you’d like to come across to the admissions department. Give them a deadline for the letter but try and give them at least 3-4 weeks to write it – they’ll probably have lots of others to write as well). When they complete it, make sure to give them a thank-you card and keep them posted in the spring on the status of your applications.

The Personal Statement

Keep in mind is that you will be writing more than one statement, so it’s important to keep a folder on your computer desktop with each school’s essay clearly titled. As you print off drafts label them ‘Draft #1’, ‘Draft#2’, etc. You will probably be able to recycle the same 2 or 3 essays to fit each school’s prompt, but it’s important to get started early. You don’t want to wait until the week before and then write something slapdash. The personal statement should be the first thing you start working on when you print your application since it will take much time to draft and revise.

The prompts are often incredibly open-ended and generic, so it’s important to be as specific as possible in your writing. Think about the experiences you’ve had in your life, especially those times where you’ve experienced great personal growth. Think about your statement as less of an “essay” and more of a “story.” Read short stories by great writers such as Ernest Hemingway, Katherine Mansfield, and John Cheever. Pay attention to how they draw a reader into an entire world in only a few short pages. Obviously your statement won’t be a work of fiction, but it doesn’t have to be boring! Find something to inspire you – www.npr.org has great short news pieces on people’s lives all around the world. Think of your statement as an opportunity to write a report on the significant people in your life.

Give your drafts to family, friends and teachers for feedback and comments. Don’t take anything personally; be open to their suggestions but stay true to yourself. Ask your readers, “How does the person who wrote this come across?” You want to use experiences from your life to illustrate that you are a mature, intelligent, sensitive individual who is ready to take on the challenges and opportunities of university-life, but the illustration aspect of the essay in important. As my high school English teacher, Mr. Lawrence, used to say, “Show them! Don’t tell.”

As you work through your applications, don’t be afraid to contact the Admission Department at the various schools. If you met an admission counselor at your school’s open house or at a local info session, ask for their business card and follow up with them. Ask them if there is anything you can add to your application to set yourself apart; keep them posted on your progress through e-mail. Making a friend in the Admissions Office can really help you out in the long run if your application ends up on the waiting list. Don’t be obnoxious, but show your eagerness. Schools want to admit students who want them.

How to Get a Letter of Recommendation

There are many reasons to have a letter of recommendation, whether for college, jobs, or even to join a professional organization later on in life they almost always come in handy. Yet your introduction to this process will probably come in high school when you ask your teachers or advisors to write a letter for your prospective schools. Not every school needs a letter of recommendation; in fact, for larger state universities like UCLA or Berkeley, none are necessary, but for smaller universities and liberal arts colleges they can make or break your application. A great recommendation matched with good ACT scores and grade point can be the deciding factor that will let you into your college of choice.  To get the best recommendations takes practice, though. I will guide you through the steps.

First, find out what the school needs. Usually they provide the forms online with the application. Print these out and attach them with a paperclip to a large letter-size envelope that has the address of the college admissions office printed on it. Do not forget a stamp. Just because your teacher or guidance counselor agreed to write a letter on your behalf, does not mean they need to buy you postage too!

Next, find the person who can recommend you best. Answer these questions before choosing someone. Who, out of all the faculty and staff, knows you the best? Who do you know the best? Who among this group is known to write letters? Finally, who is a good writer? You need to think about all of these questions before choosing someone. Notice how one of those questions is not, “Who is the most important person you know?” If your cross-country coach knew you pretty well, why not ask him or her for a letter? Who knows, he or she may know more about your character and your capabilities than any teacher you have. Some colleges require that one letter comes from a guidance counselor or school principal. In that case what better time to get to know your principal’s office than senior year?

It is now time to ask for a recommendation. Find a time to meet with your teacher. Do not do this before class or in the middle of periods. Choose a good time that you can sit down and just talk. If your teacher does not have that time to talk to just you, then maybe he or she is not the best letter writer. Remember, you need to find someone who knows you really well. Make sure during that chat that you mention what the college is looking for, what you want to be highlighted in the letter, and when the letter is due. If it is all online, make sure he or she knows the website (and even the log-on information). You should not write the recommendation, but make sure your writer knows what to focus on. A résumé can do wonders in this regard.

Finally, after the letter is turned in, write a nice thank you note to your recommender. This can be short but it should be handwritten and signed. Do not skimp in this department—a thank you note can go a long way. Also remember to let that person know what your future plans are. Good or bad, your recommender will want to know. Who knows, one day he or she could ask you for a recommendation and need to know your address. It happened to me and it could happen to you.

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Getting Letters of Recommendation

Most colleges require at least one letter of recommendation.  5 years ago, Berkeley didn’t require any letters and I suspect that is why I got in.  (Even though I got straight A’s and did sports, I hardly got to know my teachers or participated in class.)  Which is why I approached things differently in college.

1) Identify your recommenders early

It doesn’t hurt to know who you are going to ask by junior year.  It takes time to build up a relationship with a teacher and for them to get to know you.  The longer you know the teacher, the more they know about your learning style, your work ethic, your leadership skills etc.  You may want to ask a teacher in whose class you’re doing well, but keep in mind that grades aren’t everything.  Even if you are acing your assignments without much help, take your work in periodically to discuss the material and ask for feedback.

2) Demonstrate that you are a valuable member of the classroom

Speak up in class but don’t speak for the sake of speaking either.  It is very obvious when people speak just to be noticed and there are several variants of the saying that “an empty vessel makes the most noise”.  Don’t pass yourself off as an empty vessel.

Volunteer to take on class duties and demonstrate that you are a good leader during group discussions and presentations by directing the conversation, keeping the discussion on topic yet giving everyone a chance to voice their opinion.  Even as you are stating your point of view, acknowledge what your team members are saying too.  (E.g. “As Allison said,…”, “I agree with Bob but…”)  This is especially useful when your teacher is making the rounds and checking in on the groups.

3) The same applies to after school activities and sports

Coaches can be good recommenders.  Think about it, how much time a week do you spend at practice and with your team mates?  And for how many years?  This is huge opportunity for your coaches to observe your time management skills, your dedication, your leadership skills and your general greatness as a person who supports his or her team mates.  Take the initiative when organizing fundraisers for your club or study sessions around midterms and finals or an alumni day for alumni who have moved on to college.

4) Give your recommenders a draft personal statement

This statement can even be in point form, but it should give them an idea of the schools you are interested in applying to, why you want to spend the next four years of your life there, the academic subjects that interest you and all the other awesome things that you are doing with your time in high school.  This especially helps if your teacher doesn’t know you very well or only knows you from that one class you took with him or her.  In any event, it makes it easier for them to tailor their letter to your interests.  For example, all your English teacher might know is how great you are at literature and that you’re a very active member in drama club.  He or she might not know how much you enjoy Biology and that your primary motivation in applying to Stanford is their excellent biology program and facilities.  This is where your draft statement helps.

5) Follow up

Make sure you print out all the forms and instructions and hand them to your recommender.  Don’t feel bad following up three weeks later.  If they have already submitted it, write them a thank you note.  If not, just give them a gentle reminder.  When the results come out, let your recommenders know which offer you decided to take up.  If they’ve taken the time and effort to write a letter for you, they will definitely want to know the outcome and where you are headed.  They could even offer some valuable insight if you are undecided about which offer to accept.  Remember, they’ve been doing this for years and plenty of seniors ahead of you have faced the same decisions you have and your teachers and coaches have seen all that.

Letters of recommendation should be easy to get.  Just get a head start and put some effort into building solid relationships with your teachers and coaches.  You can be as involved as you want in high school and there are plenty of opportunities for you to demonstrate your potential and shine.  And it won’t go unnoticed.

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How to Choose a College, Part One

Let’s face it, getting into college doesn’t stop at a stellar ACT or SAT score. Not only can choosing which schools to apply to be a daunting task, but also completing applications, personal statements, letters of recommendation, and financial aid paperwork can be less fun than studying for midterms. There are thousands of colleges and universities in the US to choose from and the application process for these schools can be less stressful if you have an organized plan of action. Grockit’s guest blog series at www.eduinreview.com offers insight on how to select schools, manage the application process, and look into financial aid. Eduinreview is a site dedicated to helping students through all areas of the education process.  Check out the first post from last weekend.

The Application Process, pt 1

Let’s face it, getting into college doesn’t stop at a stellar ACT or SAT score. Not only can choosing which schools to apply to be a daunting task, but also completing applications, personal statements, letters of recommendation, and financial aid paperwork can be less fun than studying for midterms. There are thousands of colleges and universities in the US to choose from and the application process for these schools can be less stressful if you have an organized plan of action. Grockit’s guest blog series at www.eduinreview.com offers insight on how to select schools, manage the application process, and look into financial aid. Eduinreview is a site dedicated to helping students through all areas of the education process. Check out the first post from last weekend.