Q: How do you make decisions

A: IMHO. Too often we are living in our memories (past) and imagination
(future). Too often our decisions are motivated by these two
non-realities. Also, a large part of human decision making is fear
motivated. I love talking to people about that because people tend to
think “Well I’m not fear motivated”, but in reality a careful
examination would show the opposite.
Fear is a sub-routine of the mind/brain that is a) very fast to load b)
very loud and c) always willing to be the solution.
The challenge is to recognize fearful thinking and use your rational
mind to mitigate it.
In this way I like to let decisions make themselves.
When you live in reality, not memory or imagination, you will often see
that the decision you have to make is purely a question of your own
intent.
What is it that you want. If you can SEE reality, you should see which
path will lead you well. The challenge, this time, is know what you
want.”